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Sophie Herxheimer's avatar

Yes this makes heaps of sense to me. I’m nearly an elder (62) and love to have got to a stage where I’m doing a lot of teaching and being around creative process.

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Hannah Mays's avatar

Sam- what an AMAZING manifesto. Yes, yes, yes. Sorry, it’s taken me so long to reply- I’ve been away from home for a bit, but also I wanted your ideas to percolate for a bit! I don’t know if you’ve read any Sharon Blackie (one of my favourite authors- she’s a psychologist, mythologist, story teller) - she is certainly interested in these ideas. I’ve been thinking about the very idea of elderhood for a while now and what you have said resonates deeply with me- you’ve managed to put down thoughts and feelings into words. With regards to points 1-6, you’ve hit the nail on the head. In today’s Western society we don’t talk about old age, and more specifically death. And as a doctor, I know it’s not talked about enough with patients and relatives. Death has become too clinical and Western medicine is so concerned with preserving life at all costs death is seen as a ‘failure.’

I’m so glad of your point 8- just look at some of our ‘leaders’ today- I would not class them as elders in the sense you mean it.

Points 13 and 14 are particularly pertinent to me- as an old age psychiatrist of many years I am certainly seeing this first hand. The number of referrals for over 65s has been increasing year on year and we are getting referrals now for people in their 90s and even over 100yrs. Loneliness and disconnection play a huge role in older people’s mental health, which was all too easily and sadly seen in lockdown.

I should probably wind up, I’ve probably written far too much already for the comment box! I would love to be a part of what you describe in point 19- how do we do it though??

Thank you for putting this out there Sam- it is so important and relevant today. I shall continue to ponder and digest your words. Hannah

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